Monday, June 15, 2009

How we chose the name Kolya Mattilee...



KOLYA is pronounced like the boy's name Cole (which happens to be my cousin's name) plus "ya" at the end. It's the Czechoslovakian/Russian nickname for the boy's name Nickolai. It's European enough to tie into Sasha's Serbian roots and yet it's girly enough to work for an American girl. Plus, it starts with a K and has two syllables which were my criteria in the name picking debacle. I wanted two syllables because everyone else in our family has two syllables and I like that our kids will have the same first and last initial. Sasha and I first saw this name when I took my first trip to Chicago to meet his family. We went to a movie store and saw the title Kolya on the cover of a movie about a little boy who goes to live with this old man. Even then, before we were even serious about marriage, we said "one day if we get married, that would make a cute name for a baby girl."

MATTILEE is my grandmother's first and middle name smooshed together. Her name is Mattie Lee Stillwell, but her siblings and my Popaw have always called her Mattie Lee...only in their Southern way of saying it, they smooshed it together to sound the very same as Mattilee. I can't be prouder to name my baby girl after such an amazingly strong and caring woman.

Just for the record...
Kallen's full name is KALLEN LAZO KECMAN. We just liked his first name when we found it in a book. Even then, I wanted a two-syllable first name that started with a "K." LAZO is Sasha's dad's name. I never met Sasha's dad because he died when Sasha was in undergrad.

If we were going to have a boy this time, or if we ever have another boy, his name will be something along the lines of KARTER LANGDON KECMAN. He'll have the same initials as Kallen. KARTER is still in question. I like it, but think it's a little plain. Plus, I don't like taking a common name and changing the spelling. LANGDON is my Memaw's brother Willard's middle name. He died when he was about 20, so I never got to meet him, but I've always heard great things about him.

Friday, June 12, 2009

35 Weeks Pregnant




Today is my first day off for summer, finally! I taught at Beckville Junior High until June 5th and then taught at Panola Kids' College from Monday until Thursday of this week. I have to say, that at 35 weeks pregnant, those kids at Kids' College gave me a run for my money! I'm glad to be home today, but don't really know what to do with myself. I need to pack for our big move to Henderson in a few weeks. I want to sew for Kolya. However, I don't feel like I have the energy or concentration to do either right now.

Oh, since I haven't blogged in a while, let me catch you up...we decided to rent a house in Henderson because we didn't feel comfortable buying a house that we knew would be temporary. We really just don't want to go through the selling process again any time soon. We found a cute 3 bedroom older house with all hardwood floors in downtown Henderson. I will be fine for the next year or two.

Another big change in our family is that I am officially a stay-at-home mom now. Sasha is at a point with his clinic that allows for me to be home with our kids, so I took him up on it. I got to stay home with Kallen for the majority of his first year of life and I just couldn't see missing out on Kolya's babyhood. Also, me being home allows for me to be more hands on in Sasha's clinic. I'll probably even bring Kolya with me to work in the clinic a few days a week once we get Kallen into a part-time mother's day out. I don't want him to go every day, but I know how social he is and I think he'd enjoy having some friends his age to play with a few days a week.

Anyway, we have a lot of changes ahead of us with moving, me staying home, and Kolya joining our family soon. I'll try to keep you updated as we progress through them.

Background

Kolya

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Kallen

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